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What is the point?


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I could not get rid of this thought- What is the point? A long term friend and doctor died yesterday due to COVID-19. Television and social media are full of beautiful words and tributes for her. Her patients and colleagues loved her. She was a fit and well person in her fifties but the virus did get hold of her in a bad way. So I come back to asking myself, where should this stop?

In this changing world, living with a heavy heart, pressured head and bloated tummy seems to become normal because that’s what happens to me if I get stressed. The agitation and helplessness are not going to go away. We all want to get back to usual living but I feel that is going to become a bygone era. We need to be safe and keep doing the washing hands and distancing to keep the illness away.

How can I get my motivation back – a friend said family, work and colleagues is all that we need and is enough reason to keep going. That is true. Pondering over what she said gave me a big lift. Thinking about what we have today is important. I was talking to my husband we need to make sure we are giving something back to society. Even a smile as we go for a walk might help the other person.

We are all having down days at the moment. I am in constant contact with people in India and everywhere it is the same story. Ups and downs are normal now. We need to be there for each other and we shall overcome this calamity. Did you know the biggest immune booster is laughter and happiness? Have a nice day my beautiful friends.

Writing is so wonderful.I have enjoyed connecting with people in all different ways especially as a doctor and now loving this platform.


13th May 2020 at 8:30 am

We are shaped by events and people around us. Often someone of the greatest challenges and learnings come in critical and tough times. Loosing someone is always the toughest experience as humans. It touches us deeply. In this difficult times it is even concerning.

Your friend fulfilled her purpose of life.

We may stay behind to only know our purpose and do the contribution on our part.

Some little words, a smile and a hug can change the world for someone at times.

Let’s hope things get better sooner and we all live healthy, caring and beautiful life with less impact to our surroundings and loved ones.

Cheers. Rock on. Spread some positivity. πŸ™‚

My share of thoughts

13th May 2020 at 10:05 am

I’m sorry you lost your friend. I hope you can find lots of reasons to smile

13th May 2020 at 10:45 am

I’m sorry for the loss of your friend. <3
Times are turbulent and we need to keep some light coming through the cracks.

13th May 2020 at 12:35 pm

You ended this a lot more optimistic than I could have. You medical peeps are in an nightmare situation and maintaining your sanity and resolve must be especially difficult after losing a friend who was working under the same conditions. I’m deeply sorry for your loss and hope you have happy memories to help you during your grief.

13th May 2020 at 2:38 pm

Thank you so much -we all have to be there for each other in this world

13th May 2020 at 2:39 pm

Absolutely,do take care 😍

13th May 2020 at 2:51 pm

Please accept my condolences for your loss. An elderly uncle of mine died from Covid-19 earlier this month. I wrote at that time that “It feels like he, and we, have been cheated by that wretched virus”, and it still feels like that. The way we can honour him and all those who died is to remember them with love, and to learn the lessons this virus is teaching us about how we can all live better, more compassionate lives in the future. Take care, stay strong.

13th May 2020 at 3:28 pm

Work keeps us going I guess. Thank you πŸ™πŸΌ

13th May 2020 at 3:32 pm

Lovely write up and so thoughtful-thank you so much

13th May 2020 at 3:35 pm

So sorry about hear about your loss. Definitely compassionate is what we need to be. Thank you πŸ™πŸΌ

13th May 2020 at 3:36 pm

You take care and stay safe too

15th May 2020 at 8:33 am

Sorry for the loss of your friend.

15th May 2020 at 11:46 am

Thank you . Do take care and stay safe .😍

17th May 2020 at 7:06 am

Maybe we should start living with it now

17th May 2020 at 9:13 am

True adjust our lives with it

21st May 2020 at 4:11 pm

So sorry for your loss! I try to remember to ask God to give me patience, a good hold on my temper and be nice to others. This virus has shaken up all of us. Good luck to you and keep smiling.

22nd May 2020 at 4:00 am

πŸ™πŸΌπŸ™πŸΌ Thank you

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